This is a new project Im playing with.
ASK ANDRU is an advice column, done MY WAY. Honest, no bullshit advise, from my perspective.
I suggest you submit questions anonymously to avoid embarrassment, recognition or gossip.
Without taking the time to start up an email account specifically for this...then copying and pasting...*tired just thinking about it*
HERE'S THE PLAN: WHENEVER YOU SEE A POST THAT SAYS "ASK ANDRU" open the post, then leave your question in the form of an ANONYMOUS COMMENT. Just click LEAVE COMMENT...type your question, dilemma, or situation...and I will respond to the post with my advice.
Lets try it out, see how it works, then I will seek improvement as needed.
SO WHATS ON YOUR MIND KIDS???? ASK AWAY!!!
2 comments:
Andru,
I am a good looking guy, in fact, Im hot. But I seem to have the worst luck with the guys Im with. Everything is magical and great in the beginning then it gets all boring and lame, then I end up going elsewhere for satisfaction...and then we break up. What kind of guys should I be going out with? Maybe I should just find better guys? I dunno.
HELP
Dear Luckless & Thoughtless,
This is a classic problem. I see it all the time, hell Ive been involved in this very situation. The problem here, is not your boyfriend. Its you.
Do you hear yourself? It gets boring (to you) and you "end up getting satisfaction elsewhere...what kind of guys should you be looking for"... so let me get this straight...because you are unable to cope with the fact that people and relationships evolve, you become bored, then cheat on your bf...and the relationship ends...and you think YOU have bad luck? And you are asking me what kind of guys you should date? Punkin....your boyfriends have the bad luck, cuz they dated you.
You need to date guys who are either just as shady as you are, or have had full frontal lobotomies.
REALITY CHECK:
Relationships change and evolve, people change and evolve, if you cant change and evolve with your partner, then you end the relationship!! That does NOT give you permission to cheat. There is no GOOD reason to cheat, I dont care who you are or what your reason is, cheating is low, rotten and cruel.
My advice to you: Stay single, stop placing unrealistic expectations on your partners unless you are willing to have those same expectation placed on you, and PULL YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS. You seem to have alot of growing up to do, but if you are a good person deep down (and jury is still out on that one) then you should finally be able to evolve....into a decent boyfriend.
~xoxo
Andru
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